Don't Hang in there — Ask for Help!

As your Sorrow grows, so does your burden, but I guarantee you you'll never get rid of it on your own. The burden you carry is sickly and heavy.

Do you see help over there? Don't wipe away your tears, look through them. Tears have a way of bringing clarity. This post encourages you to ask for help, enlighten, or teach you to look past your sorrows.

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What should I do?

I believe I can answer that question. I called for Help, I didn't know what else to do " And I have come" said Help. I was told, "Don't hesitate, Don't waste time, Do what you know you must ". Aren't you tired? the fact that you're tired is enough reason to ask for help.

The statement is quite simple "Ask for help", as simple as it is, many of us don't find that easy. Including myself sometimes. It was the scary idea of being considered weak, vulnerable, or inadequate.

But the truth is you can't do past what you know, and sadly what you know or what you thought you knew still hasn't been able to get you past what you're going through. So! that's a clear indication that there is more and more is accessed by asking for help.

You're not vile! You're not of little worth or value!

You think you must not come to God because you are weak or based on mistakes and errors.

The solution to getting past your "problems" is through asking for help. You asking for help is what provides you with the "know-how".

We get weary because we don't know the way. The way is to ask for help — Ask for directions.

Asking for help will never be to your detriment but much more a plus to yourself and the lives of others around you.

When you see people bear their suffering nobly, there's nothing wrong but good, and then when you see people take responsibility and decide that they're going to aim up and confront their suffering honestly and forthrightly. Then their lives get better and the lives of people around them get better too. And so that's very strange as well because it also means that the pathway to less suffering is through suffering. — Jordan Peterson

Asking for help poses the idea of you being weak or vulnerable. Vulnerability is not a weakness. That's a form of courage, that's not a form of weakness. Asking for help leads you to whatever steps are necessary to deal with whatever you want to deal with properly.

It's a facade that you're invulnerable. No one is invulnerable by any stretch of the imagination. And to stand up and face that is the best route that you have. — Jordan Peterson

Don't hang in there — Ask for help. Not asking for help indicates that you're willing to let yourself keep drowning. And no sooner than later would you be able to hold off.

In life, we'd at some point encounter hurdles, swamps, and situations that would attempt to drown us. Help is always sent to us in one form or the other.

I achieved in 5months what I was never able to do in a year and a half, not because of skills, diligence, or discipline. As much as those are important, it was all initiated by asking for help. Sometimes it feels like we get to that point of "what more do I stand to lose, I've lost it all already" — and that's right, you've lost so much already, it's Courage to give it a try again.

I encourage you to read to post on the 7 Tests of Courage.

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Farewell!

Remember !!

Help in some form or another is never far away!!!

As for me, I am poor and needy, but the Lord takes thought for me. You are my help and my deliverer; do not delay, O my God! — Psalm 40: 17